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My (male) friend K has been married to his wife M for 7 years. They hsve two children. A 2 year old and a newborn.
M had complications with her pregnancy. Their baby was born very prem (born just before 24 weeks).. As far as I know baby is doing ok in hospital..
Now K has messaged me on FB saying he's devistated because M has put on an intervention order on him making false accusations. He can't see his kids or her.
There's a court date in a few weeks.
Now I know I don't know what goes on behind closed doors but I know what K is like. I've known him since highschool and know for a fact he isn't violent or aggressive, he's a bit of a "pussy"
He told me he didn't see anything like this happening.. All was good. They saw tjeir newborn in hospital the night before.. 2 year old had his first day of daycare. He left for work and when he got him the locks were changed..
I suggested to him that she could hsve post natal depression and just needs a clear head. They are both stressed about the premature birth (it was hard for them to get pregnant and had to rely on ivf because K had cancer years ago)..
Sorry if I'm not making sense, but what can I do?
How can I help my friends? I don't want to intervene or anything but at the same time I can't just sit back and watch him go into depression over this?