I just don't like the impression I get on bubhub that parents who don't use CC are suckers who are putting their mental health at risk to play the perfect parent.
I don't care what others do but I do care when people imply that I am either doing the above, or being sanctimonious and judgmental.
My mental health is just fine and was in the thick of it too. I didn't work, I could sleep in the day if needed and I have a great support network I could call on any day. I wasn't martyring myself. I understand why others do it though.