+ Reply to Thread
Page 2 of 3 FirstFirst 123 LastLast
Results 11 to 20 of 28
  1. #11
    Join Date
    Jan 2012
    Location
    Paradise
    Posts
    362
    Thanks
    41
    Thanked
    125
    Reviews
    0
    Quote Originally Posted by Deskar View Post
    This is me! It's a bit all over the he shop now though since having DS.

    OP can you go on a different floor or maybe the shops at lunchtime?
    I would love too but there is 2 toilet blocks both located within the building attached to work.
    I don't know what the issue is. I know everyone does it and it's nothing to be embarrassed about but mentally I can't just can't do it.

  2. #12
    Join Date
    Oct 2011
    Location
    Newcastle, NSW
    Posts
    3,741
    Thanks
    1,473
    Thanked
    1,185
    Reviews
    0
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 postsAmber Star - 2,000 posts
    Quote Originally Posted by SSecret Squirrel View Post
    I used to be like that.

    Developing IBS like symptoms after losing my gallbladder cured me of it.
    I was just about to write the same thing! Only used to use my home toilet but now that the gallbladder is out 'when you got to go, you got to go!!'

  3. The Following User Says Thank You to BabyG4 For This Useful Post:

    SSecret Squirrel  (22-05-2016)

  4. #13
    Join Date
    Aug 2015
    Posts
    3,651
    Thanks
    28,192
    Thanked
    14,093
    Reviews
    0
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 postsAmber Star - 2,000 posts
    This is so me

    When DH and I moved in together I either waited until he went to work to do my business, or I'd ask him to leave and go for a walk down the paddocks!

    Now I can go when he is in the house but only if the tv is on really loud, and he promises not to walk up the hallway past the bathroom.

    When we got together I actually told him I had a rule he had to follow: Whatever he thinks he heard, saw or smelled coming from the bathroom, he was wrong! He was not allowed to make any bathroom related comments!

    I work mostly from home now but when I do have to go to the office I pray I don't have to do #2's at work. I will force my body to go before I leave home, whether I need to go or not! Public bathrooms? No way. Unless there is a dire emergency I just can't do it.

  5. #14
    Join Date
    May 2009
    Posts
    4,795
    Thanks
    1,027
    Thanked
    2,260
    Reviews
    0
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 postsAmber Star - 2,000 posts
    Quote Originally Posted by Blossom74 View Post
    This is so me

    When DH and I moved in together I either waited until he went to work to do my business, or I'd ask him to leave and go for a walk down the paddocks!

    Now I can go when he is in the house but only if the tv is on really loud, and he promises not to walk up the hallway past the bathroom.

    When we got together I actually told him I had a rule he had to follow: Whatever he thinks he heard, saw or smelled coming from the bathroom, he was wrong! He was not allowed to make any bathroom related comments!

    I work mostly from home now but when I do have to go to the office I pray I don't have to do #2's at work. I will force my body to go before I leave home, whether I need to go or not! Public bathrooms? No way. Unless there is a dire emergency I just can't do it.
    This is me. I have such an issue with this. I can only use my ensuite bathroom and the bedroom door is locked plus the bathroom door. Both doors need to be locked. If DH is in the room he has to leave and go to the living room or the study and we discuss nothing. It sounds funny but it's not it has caused issue with my body. I can't go to the toilet at work. I found a disabled toilet that I use at work in emergencies.
    If I'm in a hotel I will put the shower on and pretend I'm having a shower if I need to go.
    It's beyond stupid but my body won't go otherwise.

  6. #15
    Join Date
    Jul 2015
    Posts
    6,901
    Thanks
    4,791
    Thanked
    4,233
    Reviews
    0
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 postsAmber Star - 2,000 postsAmethyst Star - 5,000 posts
    Awards:
    100 Posts in a week
    I can't #2 in public or anyone else's house etc. I just can't.

  7. #16
    Join Date
    May 2007
    Location
    Gippsland
    Posts
    14,827
    Thanks
    1,233
    Thanked
    3,963
    Reviews
    2
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 postsAmber Star - 2,000 postsAmethyst Star - 5,000 postsEmerald Star - 10,000 posts
    I don't have a problem with going in public toilets, doesn't bother me. Besides I've got no choice really due to slight prolapses, can't hold it in!

    DP is weird like that, he will hold on until he comes home unless his 'routine' gets out of whack and he has to go urgently. I was out with him once when he had to give in and go in a public toilet.

    I think it's a bit odd to have issues with it and I do wonder if it stems from some sort of shame being attached to it that happened in peoples childhoods. Of course it is a very private thing and I won't go if DP can potentially hear me, and I always put loo paper in the bowl to muffle the sound, but I have no hang ups about going wherever.

  8. #17
    Join Date
    Jul 2009
    Posts
    3,225
    Thanks
    214
    Thanked
    1,077
    Reviews
    0
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 postsAmber Star - 2,000 posts
    This thread reminds me of the film American Pie.... ImageUploadedByThe Bub Hub1463879800.361069.jpg

  9. The Following User Says Thank You to Lil M For This Useful Post:

    lese82  (22-05-2016)

  10. #18
    Join Date
    Jul 2009
    Posts
    3,225
    Thanks
    214
    Thanked
    1,077
    Reviews
    0
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 postsAmber Star - 2,000 posts
    In all seriousness, I wouldn't poo at school, when I was a kid, even at infant school. Since developing anxiety as an adult, I've had to get over that. I still have a lot of anxiety issues surrounding doing no. 2's, it effects my life daily.

  11. #19
    Join Date
    Sep 2008
    Posts
    4,489
    Thanks
    553
    Thanked
    1,122
    Reviews
    0
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 postsAmber Star - 2,000 posts
    I have no issue with this myself, but a good friend of mine can't poo when she's on holidays. We camp with them quite a lot and when it's a longer trip (like a week) it gets really unpleasant for her. Her husband said that when they holidayed around Europe in a van for 6 weeks things were very ugly for her! Poor love

  12. #20
    Join Date
    Aug 2013
    Posts
    3,792
    Thanks
    144
    Thanked
    1,702
    Reviews
    0
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 postsAmber Star - 2,000 posts
    I had my gall bladder out in feb 2015 and my tummy hadn't been the same since. I'm off to have a colonoscopy soon as it's getting worse.

    I can't Not go at work and I work in a community house with 2 male colleagues and I hate my tummy probs. ( 7x in 1 day last week .. Was a bad bad day !! )


 

Similar Threads

  1. Bbt chart thread #7
    By Lottiemum in forum Conception & Fertility General Chat
    Replies: 990
    Last Post: 05-09-2015, 09:48

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
free weekly newsletters | sign up now!
who are these people who write great posts? meet our hubbub authors!
Learn how you can contribute to the hubbub!

reviews
learn how you can become a reviewer!

competitions

forum - chatting now
sales & new stuffsee all
Hills Swimming
Swim with your friends and you will all get a 33% discount!* We have programs to suit all ages and abilities, with small classes held in our warm indoor 25 metre pool. Highly qualified teachers, and award winning programs. *conditions apply
featured supporter
Maternity Clothes
Looking to buy maternity clothes? :: Check the bubhub directory of local & online maternity clothes shops :: Find preloved maternity wear
gotcha
X

Pregnant for the first-time?

Not sure where to start? We can help!

Our Insider Programs for pregnancy first-timers will lead you step-by-step through the 14 Pregnancy Must Dos!