*edit* If I had have had dd#3 instead of a ds, I am not sure how I would have initially dealt with it. I am sure I would love a baby no matter what, but for me 3dds was never in the plan. I am sure I'd have been resentful and angry at DH (maybe irrationally so) maybe even suffered pnd - who knows - would that have been any different than having a boy? I am positive I would have got over it, but luckily I neverhad to deal with that.
I think with the harmony test etc (available from 10 weeks), termination based on sex is a cheaper and more accessible option for people who are h'ell bent on having a certain sex anyway and there is no "legislation" (apart from normal termimation regulations in each state) to stop them/against that so I am torn between what the difference is... maybe naively so.
I think of people want to choose sex let them. I am a woman and wanted boys, I know many other woman wanted girls - I think it evens out.