I will add that I adore DD and would not change her or wish she were different.
Raising a girl just scares/d me. Partly because it was so hard for me (not necessarily my relationship with my family but more relationship with others). Also I have PCOS. It sucks so badly. Seems like my mum had it too so I was hoping to not have to pass it on to a daughter.
DS is currently not completely a boyish boy. He loves cars/trucks/machinery and spiderman but today he is wearing makeup, has made me buy him pink flowery shoes, plays with dolls, loves shopping, talks about Frozen (as his girl friends at childcare are obsessed).
So for me it is not necessarily the fact that I want a rough and tumble boyish boy its probably just my life experience growing up has influenced me.