All this hypothesising.. About what is right and what is wrong. Does anyone actually know anyone who has had sex selection Ivf. I have a good friend travel to Thailand and did this.. Before the baby Gammy fiasco. Her reasons were that she did not want to continue to have more and more kids to get her precious daughter in a household full of testerosterone. Never would she have aborted an unwanted baby duty to sex.. But didn't want to be in this position either. Interesting enough she didn't think it was appropriate for me to choose the sex of my baby being my first pregnancy. Still to this day only a few people know about how her third child came to be because society has such strong views about it.
I had my overseas donor embie (created using donor eggs and sperm )transferred 2 days ago.. And if sex selection was allowed in South Africa and I had more than 2 blasts total.. I would have had sex selection. But as it is not allowed here.. And My desire for another baby is stronger than the desire for a particular sex as I already have a daughter. If however I had a son first.. And I really wanting a daughter.. I would have been off to the U.S. where both is possible. This would have been significantly more expensive.. But people will find a way ( as I damn well know... All this flying around) To get what they want if they feel strongly about it. Time will tell.. 2ww continues.. But I will be happy either way.. A boy or girl.. to get a bfp after 6 ivf cycles. Xx fingers crossed