Ours cost us $40k not including our honeymoon. When I got married the first time (15 years ago) it cost $10k.
The first time around my parents paid for most of it, the second time around I wouldn't let anyone else pay anything so we felt like we could have whatever we wanted. We spent $40k on our honeymoon too. Looking back I loved everything about our wedding, but the money we spent seems ridiculously excessive!