I'm new to this forum. I have a 20 month old and after his traumatic birth I have decided to go private for the next bub.
We have just started TTC (last time we were very lucky and it happened instantly) so I want to get a short-list of obs for the next one.
If you have seen an ob at St John of God in Berwick, I'd be really grateful if you could PM me your experiences.
My son's birth ended in emergency forceps because his heart rate kept dropping (due to pressure on the cord). They kept saying they would do an emergency c-section, but in the end tried for emergency forceps instead. I sustained some very nasty tears into my bowel, which still affect me today and give me a slightly increased risk of fecal incontinence if it happens again. So I want an ob sensitive to my anxiety and happy to perform an elective Caesar. Please don't judge me for this!
Thanks in advance for your help.