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    Quote Originally Posted by VicPark View Post
    So in summary... In your opinion in order for us to have a successful debate I have to change my opinion to yours? Rightio

    I wasn't specifically referring to you with regards to A-Squared. It's the result of a collective effort that we could very well have lost a good hubber.

    RIP freedom of speech on the hub xxx (in a thread about judging nonetheless ! )
    A-Squared and I didn't agree, but managed to end the discussion respectfully and peacefully...but you take 2 and 2 and come up with 5 for your own justifications and then make juvenile comments. It's difficult, and tiring. All I think is that if this is what you are like IRL you must be a very hard person to be around. I've asked you if you were okay before, and Elijah's mum has asked you if you're okay, too. You've said yes on both occasions, but your posts have changed VP and I hope they're a reflection of you enjoying posting troll like style posts, and not a reflection of something bigger going on in your personal life.
    FWIW, I hope you take some of these posts on board and stop insisting it's just a bh lynch mob out to get you. I'm not out to get you, not at all. There are many posts of yours that I've read and not commented on...but they all sound so repetitive. To me, it feels like you want to psycho-analyse everything everyone says, and that you are right 110% of the time, never ever do you make a mistake in your postings, or your thinking. A lot of your posts feel like they come straight from a Dr. Phil episode.
    I actually addressed A-Squared more in this thread than you, because I can't be bothered debating with you due to the reasons above. And really, bh will be really quiet without your controversy, you've just lost some of your touch I would like to see you get it back.
    Last edited by Full House; 16-05-2016 at 22:05.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sonja View Post
    You just never budge. On any topic. Ever..
    Over the years I have changed my opinion on:
    - SAHM's using childcare
    - asylum seekers arriving via boat that transit through a middle country (staunch advocator on that issue now!)
    - have softened towards AP style parenting

    I admit I haven't really changed my mind yet regarding finchy - although I'm probably more likely to change my opinion on that than the Mongolian dude who shops his kids off overseas and only sees them a few weeks in 5 years of whatever it was.
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    Quote Originally Posted by VicPark View Post
    Over the years I have changed my opinion on:
    - SAHM's using childcare
    - asylum seekers arriving via boat that transit through a middle country (staunch advocator on that issue now!)
    - have softened towards AP style parenting
    Ok I stand corrected. But the fact you can remember only 3 out of the whole time you've been on Bubhub?

    Maybe I'm just shifty and can be persuaded by a good argument

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sonja View Post
    Ok I stand corrected. But the fact you can remember only 3 out of the whole time you've been on Bubhub?

    Maybe I'm just shifty and can be persuaded by a good argument
    I changed my mind on you too - have softned to you over the years and am quite fond now. Started to soften on a few my mind on a few others too but they are back on my **** list again

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    You know what? I feel really yuck about where this thread is heading. I've been vocal, really vocal in my negative judgements towards @VicPark for pretty much forever but questioning a hubbers personal stuff on the open forum? It does kinda feel like people are swooping in.

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    Quote Originally Posted by VicPark View Post
    I changed my mind on you too - have softned to you over the years and am quite fond now. Started to soften on a few my mind on a few others too but they are back on my **** list again
    Right back at ya 👍

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    Quote Originally Posted by Full House View Post
    A-Squared and I didn't agree, but managed to end the discussion respectfully and peacefully...but you take 2 and 2 and come up with 5 for your own justifications and then make juvenile comments. It's difficult, and tiring. All I think is that if this is what you are like IRL you must be a very hard person to be around. I've asked you if you were okay before, and Elijah's mum has asked you if you're okay, too. You've said yes on both occasions, but your posts have changed VP and I hope they're a reflection of you enjoying posting troll like style posts, and not a reflection of something bigger going on in your personal life.
    FWIW, I hope you take some of these posts on board and stop insisting it's just a bh lynch mob out to get you. I'm not out to get you, not at all. There are many posts of yours that I've read and not commented on...but they all sound so repetitive. To me, it feels like you want to psycho-analyse everything everyone says, and that you are right 110% of the time, never ever do you make a mistake in your postings, or your thinking. A lot of your posts feel like they come straight from a Dr. Phil episode.
    I actually addressed A-Squared more in this thread than you, because I can't be bothered debating with you due to the reasons above. And really, bh will be really quiet without your controversy, you've just lost some of your touch I would like to see you get it back.
    Because if there's a miscommunication it must be my mouth that's broken and not your ears... Rightio ...

    Let's agree to disagree on finchy, when it's appropriate to judge, and who's at fault for a judgement thread going pear shaped.

    Night!

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    And FTR...no a debate doesn't have to end with people agreeing with each other. But for both parties to get to a point where they actually aim to understand where the other side is coming from, and respectfully agree to disagree. That's a successful debate to me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by VicPark View Post
    Because if there's a miscommunication it must be my mouth that's broken and not your ears... Rightio ...

    Let's agree to disagree on finchy, when it's appropriate to judge, and who's at fault for a judgement thread going pear shaped.

    Night!
    I'm done.

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    Quote Originally Posted by misskittyfantastico View Post
    You know what? I feel really yuck about where this thread is heading. I've been vocal, really vocal in my negative judgements towards @VicPark for pretty much forever but questioning a hubbers personal stuff on the open forum? It does kinda feel like people are swooping in.
    Is this aimed at me? In regards to VP?


 

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