hoping I've got the right section for this lol.
so I'm hoping to take ds to the local pool with some other mums and bubs and I'm feeling very unattractive and self conscious re baring my bod. ds is 10 weeks old so I'm 10 weeks pp. I don't look hideous I guess in the overall scheme of things but I'm just feeling self conscious and basically uncomfortable at the idea of being out in public in so little clothes covering me. I've never been much of a fan of the beach/pool as I always feel really exposed and embarrassed wearing so little. yes, I'm weird
I don't feel it's fair for ds to miss out on his play date so I'm wondering if anyone has any ideas on swimsuits that don't make you feel too bare?
I bought a 2 piece for my baby moon, the top is a structured bra and it's basically a singlet (full tummy coverage) and bottoms are just bikini brief style.
I had a cs so feeling a bit like my tummy is still flabby and urgh.
what do others do to get around this? I feel really stupid allowing vanity and insecurity to hamper me like this but I've always hated getting down to my togs lol so figure I may as well be honest and try to find something that works for me