Ooh I get it. My DH doesnt play golf, but his sport takes up all day saturday. I've said that I need a couple of hours a week to myself to make it a bit more fair - but the reality is,with me having 2 kids home full time + 1 in school,him gone for work 5 days + sport one day, & family/ church commitments on sundays - there is no time left in the week for me to get my time. I just tell myself that I will get 'me' time when the kids are all grown up. That's a long time away though!