I don't have Facebook but DH does. Our DD is 10 months old and he has never mentioned her on Facebook and there are no photos of her on there. When I was pregnant someone wrote congratulations on his way. He deleted it then changed his settings so people can't post anything on there without his approval. Some might say extreme but he has people on there he went to school with 25 years ago overseas, work colleagues, hobby friends, associates etc and he is very private, as am I. We basically think that if you are a proper friend then you'll know what's going on in our life without needing to see it on the Internet. I don't see why he has Facebook but he likes following certain pages/groups.