As for whether it's private or open....
I'm not likely to post anything sensitive but I understand some may be concerned about that. Likewise, we probably don't want to risk trouble-makers coming in.
I think perhaps "Invite Only" - you need one of our regulars to nominate you to get in, much like a golf club So private, in other words.
TBH I'd be grateful to be eligible to go on the Pregnancy Graduates thread, whether open or private!!!
So far it's a close race between private and open.
I'll go either way if it helps settle things for you hon!
Just a thought ...
If there are people who wish to keep their pregnancies, pics of their children, and personal details private, then perhaps it might be best to consider making the Graduates a private thread?
Other members who want to share their private information can do so openly on other areas of the site anyway, but once personal information is out there, it's out there forever. Everyone is entitled to privacy, and I'd hate to think someone might feel they can't partake in the Pregnancy Graduates thread openly and honestly purely because they're worried about 'strangers' reading about their private life.
As new members come through the TTC thread we can always invite them up to the Graduates thread once we're comfortable with them.
Sorry F,H&L - we're not making this easy on you!
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