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    Nicely said @Tahli. I'm sure no-one intends to be hurtful in any way. I'm not sure what the solution is except to take a break and rejoin when ready. I wish when I was cycling last year I was a part of this forum, you girls have so much knowledge and care for each other, it's just lovely. I also think it's important to celebrate when things go right for each other, that's what everyone is aiming for themselves isn't it? When things turn to crap, you support each other beautifully and everyone responds differently emotionally to IVF and other crap in their lives. I'm sorry if I've upset anyone, it's never ever been my intention.
    @Maxwellsmum, I'm not too far from you and I have two border collies who love to chase a ball if you and your pooch ever what company xxx

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tahli View Post
    I love hearing about the bubs born from the girls on here too. Adalyn gave me the inspiration to push on. It's a tricky balance. I kind of wish I didn't do that post now. I didn't want to stir things up. That's the last thing I'd want to do. I just wanted to acknowledge some of the girls' pain.
    @Tahli, you weren't trying to stir things up, you had people's best interests at heart. ❤️

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    Yeah I didn't see it as stirring either @Tahli just looking out for the girls who have taken a break. Xx

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tahli View Post
    I love hearing about the bubs born from the girls on here too. Adalyn gave me the inspiration to push on. It's a tricky balance. I kind of wish I didn't do that post now. I didn't want to stir things up. That's the last thing I'd want to do. I just wanted to acknowledge some of the girls' pain.

    You haven't done anything wrong or upset anyone by posting that Luv ok??

    I do agree with what all the other Lovelies have said and frucked if I know what the solution is either???

    A "Group Hug" is always a good ideax1000 for all the Girls struggling and in pain

    I just want you Girls that are having a sh!t of a time at the moment and who have stepped away for a break (but may be following on from the sidelines) to know that having a "time out" is totally understandable and in many cases, absolutely necessary lest you lose the bloody plot completely!!!

    However, please know that we are all here for you should you want/need support/advice in any shape, way or form. Please don't feel that you can't reach out for help even if that moment happens to coincide with us celebrating another Lovelies "moment in the sun" as @Blossom74 said. Don't feel that by asking for help that you are "bringing down the thread" or any BS like that ok??

    We all want to help and support you in any way that you need at any time that you need it. All you have to do is reach out to us and at least one of us will be there almost immediately and the rest of us will follow suit asap

    P.S...Apologies if any of my previous posts have been insensitive in any way, shape or formxoxoxo
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    Nicely said @BIB

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    So sorry @Maxwellsmum I'm not surprised you chucked some stuff around, I would have too. I really hope there are some other things you can try to get your lining up or that one cycle your lining decides to cooperate.

    Yes, we have lost some gals recently it's so frikin hard and unfair and sh!tty. I hope I haven't pushed the donor stuff too hard it might be frustrating to people not going down that path. As irritating as saying 'just adopt' to someone who wants their own genetic child.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bongley View Post
    So sorry @Maxwellsmum I'm not surprised you chucked some stuff around, I would have too. I really hope there are some other things you can try to get your lining up or that one cycle your lining decides to cooperate.

    Yes, we have lost some gals recently it's so frikin hard and unfair and sh!tty. I hope I haven't pushed the donor stuff too hard it might be frustrating to people not going down that path. As irritating as saying 'just adopt' to someone who wants their own genetic child.


    Hon, I don't think it's anything you or anyone else has said on the forum that has led to some of our lovelies leaving us.

    If I got to the end of my journey without a baby in my arms, I think I would step away too.

    You have to move on with your life at some point, and I can imagine staying here (even though everyone is lovely) would only serve as a painful reminder of what could have been.

    It's sad, but I think it's natural

    Big hugs to the lovelies who have moved on

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    Joining in the group hug here. So sorry for the sad news going around. Look after yourselves girls xo

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    Quote Originally Posted by Blossom74 View Post
    Hon, I don't think it's anything you or anyone else has said on the forum that has led to some of our lovelies leaving us.

    If I got to the end of my journey without a baby in my arms, I think I would step away too.

    You have to move on with your life at some point, and I can imagine staying here (even though everyone is lovely) would only serve as a painful reminder of what could have been.

    It's sad, but I think it's natural

    Big hugs to the lovelies who have moved on
    Agree Luv with everything you've said.

    I would've had to have left the group too under the same circumstances.

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    @Maxwellsmum - very frustrating for you. Lining just seems so unpredictable.
    @Tahli - best of luck for transfer tomorrow !
    @Blossom74 - re physical resemblance to donor - my mum five feet two, blond and slightly rotund - me five foot nine, dark hair and slim. Enough said!

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