Just wondering, if your child is sick, do they still go to stay with your ex if it coincides with their weekend?
My DD has had what appears to be gastro this week, plus a cold. She caught it off DP (most likely) and my DS also got it. I texted FOB to tell him and we mutually agreed that she was better off staying here with me. This means it'll be a month in between visits because we prefer to have all our kids synchronised so that they're all here at once and we get a kid free weekend every fortnight.
A tiny part of me thinks that FOB should also care for her when she's sick, why should it only be me? But then as her mother I also prefer to be the one to look after her when she's sick.
My DP doesn't like FOB and reckons he tries to get out of having DD at every chance. FOB has occasionally cancelled his weekends with DD to go camping....which DP and I think is appalling behaviour. DP has been divorced from his exW since 2009 and has NOT ONCE, never EVER cancelled his weekends with his 3 boys. He would never ever choose anything else over his time with them. Hence why he has little respect for FOB.