Daughters hair was very knotty this morning and she wouldn't let me comb it ( or do it herself). Partner told her off. I was more calmer though I was getting frustrated too.
Anyway partner went out and I finally managed for comb her hair after she had a shower.
I let partner know her hair was now done. Instead of saying that's great and giving her a hug and moving on he still has a go at her saying " you should just do as you're told the first time blah blah blah" he does this a lot, even if the kids have played up or whatever and the rest of day they're ok and playing together nicely he doesn't seem to focus on the positive.