My DH is starting to get to me. He takes no interest in anything the kids do and only spends time with them when I encourage him to. He has no patience for any of the kids and mostly interacts with them through yelling. He does bath dd and puts her down to bed of a night.
He doesn't help around the house. I ask him about a million times a night to take the rubbish out and put the bins out on garbage night. Nothing gets done off his own back, he doesn't take care of the house at all in any way. Even if he sees as issue he does nothing about it.
He doesn't cook, clean, tidy up, do washing, gardening. Nothing.
I cant ever remember him doing anything romantic or nice for me where he had to make an effort. We have been together almost 18 years. I have to make all the plans for the weekend because he never makes any and he certainly has never planned a holiday. I am always the one who talks about and plans these types of things.
There isn't much point to this thread. I guess I just want to know what other peoples DH's are like..