So this maybe the wrong section but oh well.
A quick question! What would you ladies do in my situation. When we go shopping (or anywhere really) that requires DS to walk, he absolutely refuses. If we get him out of the car and put him on the ground he holds his legs up so he won't stand up. Sometimes I go with it and refuse to carry him and other days I just pick him back and huff and puff about it ( I know not the best option) I don't really want to leave him sitting on the ground in a car park. Pretty nasty.
He's also a runner so gets Sh!tty and drops to the ground and spins around when we hold his hand. Some days he walks perfectly, holds hands and is an angel and other days I literally don't know why I bother.
What can I do to fix this 😰 I really dont enjoy going out just us because I know my arm will be killing me by the end of it.
It sets my anxiety off when he starts all of this because I feel like I'm being judged for him not wanting to do what I need him to do. (I know it sounds so dumb!!) I also feel like I'm doing something wrong.
Sorry for the ramble! Any help would be great thanks.