Before I launch into my WWYD , please dont respond if you are going to me negative or judge me..
I am married and im not happy- i know i have posted threads in the past about this and about leaving him and i really want to but im too scared to because so many people will get hurt by my decision- My FIL , my parents who think of H as their son and of course H. He thinks theres nothing wrong with out marriage but to me there is. Im so unhappy and so sick of feeling this way. We are more like housemates than partners and its hard..
I can almost afford to leave if i share a house with someone. Im not earning enough yet to afford my own place.
My kids from my previous marriage have left home now and for the past 25 years I have always been married and a mum - I want to be single - i dont want to be tied to someone and now the kids dont need me like they did, i feel like im still trapped and i want to run...
so WWYD in my situation- stay out of a sense of loyalty to a man who has supported you through so much but you arent in love with anymore and you cant hurt parents and in laws
go and be happy and everyone else can deal with it themselves ?