Oh her she rubbed me up the wrong way big time. If she says a word you have me at your back. I am aggressive like an aggressive pit bull. Noone likes her do you know how many PM'S I had RE her from ladies on the SA thread. She offended my friends doing traveling donor as well. They don't even post on there anymore because of her.
Why would anyone be judgmental about putting in more than one embryo ?
They don't have to deal with the twins.
We aren't doing octomum here ..
And besides there are some of us who don't have any kids at all and would be happy if they were given the chance with one or two.
God help that women if she started on me in this situation.
Although tonight I'm trying to stay relaxed for Little Han Solo to be getting super comfy and strong in there now
@Tahli I know of two triplet IVF births.
1. 3 gorgeous girls - parents (GP and OT - very fit) with OE in mid 30s, multiple IVF attempts. Transferred two and one split. Kids are good although parents have held them back from starting prep as they felt they weren't ready, but never heard or noticed any mention of issues. They are thinking of going for number 4, but DH wants a one-only guarantee .
2. Not such a happy story. IVF in HK mother late 20s. It was recommended they have a reduction, but refused. Came back to Australia and kids born early. All survived. Family refused to turn off life support when recommended for one of the bubs. Weeks/months in NICU. All three ended up with significant disabilities and grandparents had to quit work to help as carers...
What are the stats for a women the donor's age? Could you cope with twins?
Oh I almost forgot -
A very old friend of mine is a naturopath and fertility specialist in Melbourne.
She's noticed a lot of the Ivf patients are cut off and need a bit more support and space to talk with like minded people so she's running a weekly group on Thursdays for 4 weeks to chat.
Would help to not feel so isolated and with emotional support.
As well as some stress related work I think.
It would be with people of similar length of time trying.
Message me if your interested and I can pass on the details.
It's Charmaine Dennis at Fertile Ground in East Melbourne.
@Maxwellsmum thanks so much for your kind words. I have given it over to the universe and im back to zen as @Tahli would say. I guess the thing is ive felt subtle symptoms which i thought were pregnly symptoms over last 2days but after realising it isnt that im now more hopeful than ever. All my googling and looking over my notes my trigger has been gone day 7 or 8 at latest in 7 cycles so at 10 days post trigger and 8dpo im going to sit with my window and pray for hope harmony and peace. This will be my longest wk ever.
@Blossom your diner looks yummy. Glad your mil was bearable. I would love to poas everyday but i actually took the pregnyl this arvo so i cant. Sorry blossom. Besides tbh this one is going to be tough for me. I have felt pg since yesterday just a knowing. I put this down to drug induced. When todays events unfolded i was like yes yes yes but now my logical brain is back so im going zen with @Tahli from now.
To be fair she may have had a hard time before she went yhe donor path .I only know her since she had a go at double transfers and twin pregnancies and more recently travelling donors and my gorgeous wazza and QFG. She actually shot down the whole of QFG how you can do that defies logic but she did it.
Anyway I am out DH is feeling better and he is sniffing around for sex so I need to fall asleep Pronto. He just came in and I sent him away but now I can hear his steps again.
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