@Blossom74 I think I agree, there's possibly just something about my first ED and I that just didn't jell, but I guess having a go with a new fresh egg donor with the same quality embryos is the only way I'll ever be able to measure that.
I do very much like the idea of trying these 3 embryos from a new ED. I love the idea of full siblings in the same town.
My embryo donor has super kindly also offered me her remaining vial of sperm in CT. So if I do a fresh cycle I could create half siblings, yay! The SD is also the same colouring as my son & I, bonus.
I forgot to mention, I was generously offered donor embryos a month ago but their gradings were so poor they shouldn't have been frozen. The wonderful embryo donor, her FS and the CFC embryologist agreed. There were 3 x 1CC (shouldn't have been frozen) and 1 x 2AB. They're not at CFC and it was such a waste to let them go.
Re a fresh cycle, I've just found out my 1st preference ED has low AMH and my 2nd preference reacted badly to her first cycle. Both have been removed from the ED program & didn't donate. This means the unproven 18 y/o twin & one of the BHers ED are still in the running!