Awesome news @Tahli. What a sweetheart.
@calypso75 Yippee!!! for 3 embies on the go Luv!!! 3 out of 5 is great for ICSI
Fruck that nurse!! Don't let her pi$$ on your fertilisation parade!!!
and prayers being sent you'll have some for PGD'ng, if not just chuck 2 back in I reckon!!!
P.S...Sorry: to hear about your MIL Luv Hope she's fighting fit again soon.
Good on you for giving them both a hand and to your boss for the Carers Leave too!!
@Summer @Maxwellsmum Lots of love and for the both of you.
You both will get there ok?? Only a little bit more preparation and biding your time then it'll be both your turn
It's such a letdown though when you've built your hopes up and I know the waiting is frucking frustrating as well when all you want to do is get things happening.
Hang in there Lovelies, not long to go now!!! Drink you way through to your next Cycles if needs be I say!!!!!!!! Do whatever it is you have to do to keep you sane while you're both counting down the daysxoxoxo
Uhm, @BlondeinBrisvegas did wine-o'clock start at, say 7pm tonight?!
All 3, are you insane?!! Ok, yes I have thought about transferring all three. The grading of the embryos is 'medium' (I'm conscious that I'm discussing real live children's frozen siblings) so I don't think there would be any harm transferring the three.
Im waiting to hear from CFC tonight as to whether we have the go ahead. Ive chosen the transfer date of 20th May, it allows an extra 6 days for building up my lining.
Im also pretty sure I'd like to do a 'Zen Cycle', so as few meds and as chilled out as possible. Namaste.
If you want to know about transferring all 3 just ask our @Vixjc who's just returned from Greece after having done just that......for the 2nd time!!!!😁😁😂
First time resulted in her DS!!!😊
P.S.....Could go a glass or 5 of vino too Luv now that you mention it!!😉😊
Goodness @Tahli it's all systems go! What an amazing opportunity & I just bet you're going to get your take home bub!
Hmmmm. I'm not in a great place. All week has been about DSS & DH & his ex. Affidavits, court documents, lots of nastiness, & a beautiful little boy crying his eyes out in my arms this evening...
And I'm finding that today's emotion is jealousy. I just want a baby so desperately that I'm jealous of everyone - DHs ex, people who are cycling, people doing DE, anyone with a child - you name it I'm jealous of them :-(. I just feel like I'm doing nothing & I'm so torn because I know I'm likely too old to have a pregnancy of my own, but I don't know whether I should be doing some investigations like the hysteroscopy that I cancelled or a lap to look for silent endo etc - I'm so phobic of hospitals that I just won't do it & I get so upset that I could have something wrong but I'll never know.
I don't know what to do to be honest. I just can't stop thinking about my five little babies that didn't make it & I just want to be pregnant again. I spent nearly nine months pregnant over 18 months & have no baby to show for it. Sorry for the downer :-(
@Summer after the wk you have had you should feel all those things hun. To watch a woman use her child as a pawn when you so desperately want to be a mum it would be heart breaking. Your dss is lucky he has you. When is it your turn. I want you to be successful. Do what ever you need to do to make this happen. Hospitals proceeedures OE cycles etc. Do you have someone to be your strength. Is there anything you can do regarding your phobia of proceedures and hospitals etc? I wish i was your friend IRL so i could take you and make it all ok.
@Maxwellsmum i hope you are self medicating with therapeutic doses of wine cheese and chocolate. We are here luv all the way. Go with asap plan i say. 😀
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