@Molros Congrats thats amazing news!! Im sorry you've got so much other family stuff going on too, its stressful and adds to your anxiety too. Its hard staying positive when so much has happened so your worries are normal, none of us think you're a fraud!!! I know in early pregnancy stress is huge, but you're very welcome to hang out in here for support. I think without this forum I'd be a head case by now and Im sure many others feel the same way.
Your hcg is high but its within normal levels so try and put the molar thing out the window. Have you expressed your concerns with your FS? They might be able to calm your nerves if you tell them. How many did you transfer? Could twins be a possibility? Anyway hcg doesnt mean much on its own as levels are so different for each person.
Im hoping this is your lucky bubsicle and sending you a big hug for support