I just caught up with this whole thread and feel heartbroken for you OP.
My husband (at the time) put pressure on me to abort my unplanned pregnancy, and it ended up costing us our marriage. I was also in a situation of no direct support, my only family living overseas etc. My husband said some extremely hurtful, impossible to forget things under the guise of 'honesty', even during a threatened miscarriage.
So, I have some limited understanding of how you might have been feeling. Let yourself grieve, not only the loss but the hospital experience, the lack of support, the whole kit and caboodle.
I wish you so much luck and happiness in the future. Fwiw it does sound to me like this wasn't a viable pregnancy, so please don't batter yourself with what ifs. I also think when you feel strong enough you and your husband need to have a good long talk about your future - what you want, what you expect, what your deal breakers are.
And please trust me, if you don't see eye-to-eye on pregnancy/children, it's more than likely he won't 'come around' to your way of thinking any more than he can expect you to 'come around' to his. The sad truth is that for some things in life there is no compromise. Better to know now where you stand with each other.
Big hugs and I hope you are travelling ok.