Thanks hun, and you've hit the nail on the head, it is hard. But I most certainly don't want to take away from anyones happiness with their bfp!
I just feel like this whole ttc business, has turned me into such a negative person, I try to be happy for others accomplishments (pregnancy), but when its in my face (sister in law, cousin in law) its hard
Ok I so didn't press the dancing happy man, I guess the universe is trying to tell me something lol
But I just feel, being a mum was my destiny, I was meant to have a big family. They think it's not hard cause I have 6 already, but the last 2 took forever to conceive and so much time and money spent on FS and treatment. I split from my ex a long time ago. And yes my partner whom is amazing is 9 years younger than me, I'm not "finished" with my family and he's just "beginning" so we should be allowed to be happy right? I await the backlash when we do get our BFP, from my family, and my sons judgmental 17 year old pregnant girlfriend, I know already what will be said. She knows I struggle to sustain a pregnancy now and she constantly rubs her pregnancy in my face.
Certain little things and stressors can severely impact our chances. He keeps telling me, if it's meant to happen it will happen, easier said than done I know. And it certainly does upset me seeing others who have one or even none, and at times it does make me feel selfish, I thought about surrogacy so many times, because I just love being pregnant. If I didn't find my soul mate, and we didn't plan to start his journey into parenthood, I'd definitely be helping others.
We just have to convince ourselves that it will happen if it's supposed to, try and remain stress free and calm. Positive vibes create positive lives. You'll get there babe..
That's so lovely about you wanting to become a surrogate!
I think with soul mates, age can never matter, and its so lovely you are willing to help him have a part of him and you come into the world
I love that saying by the way
We went and bought a new great big house, and at the moment it feels empty with just the 3 of us lol
Do you have a pic 😀
AF came Sunday good luck to those still waiting to test this month I'm off to May
In finding it really hard to keep up in here.
Congrats to all who have gotten there BFP.
Sticky baby dust to those who have vvfl I hope they turn into clear bfp's.
Good luck to everyone who's already moved onto May, I hope it's your month.
Afm I'm in my fertile window, lots of ewcm. I had a huge snot like glob yesterday it was gross.
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