Was it "meant to be" when the toddler was recently snatched in Melbourne and found dead in a creek? Was it "meant to be" when the 22 month old toddler in Perth that was hit by a car recently and killed?
Children's cancer - was that "meant to be" or part of a big plan?
I don't think it was "meant to be" that I conceived at 35 and 39 without incident and carried and birthed 2 healthy babies. To say "it was meant to be" would be, apart from being just incorrect, incredibly insensitive to all the 35+ year old women who are desperate to conceive. I was just frikkin lucky.