Long story short: df finally saw the light 4yrs ago and cut his mother off.
Life has been so much more drama free and happy. she plays childish games, lies, manipulates, causes unnecessary drama and is just very toxic. she is unstable and claims to have multiple personality disorder (and has said to me if i ever wanted to hit someone let her as she could claim her unstable condition as a defense)
last week out of the blue, his ex tried adding me as a friend on fb. we have been together 8yrs. i laughed. spoke to him and declined (felt i should be honest)
a few days later, his mumsends a friend request.i decline it also and let him know. he uses fb but because of the harassment and drama from these two he is unable to use his real name
Anyway, i then get a message (figured id get one) asking for him to contact her (mil). He tells me to ask what she wants...basically...she claims she is dying....and wants 75k in a month or is taking df to court.
We have never borrowed so much as $5 off her. she has always been on the dole, so where she thinks she got $75k from to give df is amusing...or how she can afford to go to court.
we laughed and blocked her. as per his request. me, i wanted to chew her out but kept impartial in communications.
I am expecting a flood of harrassment from her family and friends soon...she won't like being blocked...we plan to just block them also. what would you do?
We have no details for her at all but she isthe kind who is hellbent on causing drama and trying to destroy lives with her games....which is why we cut her off out of our lives as we do not want our children around that kind of relationship or atmosphere.