If you see her pulling in the driveway, strip off and wander around naked/make sure you are sprung doing something so awkward she never wants to take the risk again?
Haha the problem is, I would feel way more awkward than she would. Plus it will give her more gossip to talk about with my siblings/aunties. She actually can't keep anything to herself which is also a whole other topic about why I avoid telling her anything personal.
Omg my mum did almost the same thing today! Except she went straight to my son's room and opened the door when he's supposed to be napping! I walked out my bedroom and she was standing right at his door!!
Oh I would be so furious if my mum woke DS from a nap! I swear she talks louder when she comes over and he is napping, hoping he will wake up!!
I think it is a tough situation because it obviously comes from a loving caring place, it's obviously not like she is intentionally being a pita.
I think take her out for lunch, and tell her openly, ask her how she would have felt if her mum/mil did that to her. Tell her you will always love her but you have your family now and that you can be available 24/7, and that your worried that she is lonely etc.
I'm going to get her on her own and talk to her and then talk to dad so I can get him on board. I actually don't think she understands, she didn't have her mum and mil around at all for the last 25years. So maybe thinks it's something she would have like to have had....