Fair enough hun. I understand. (And my calculations were out on how many days you'd lose out on - sorry about that).
So the next practical question is how you can not only protect YOUR own sanity but how you can get YOUR baby. I'm guessing the court process for DSS is going to take awhile now, or will a judge this week grant the Parenting Order?
Can DH release equity from one of his/your properties to keep your DE journey going?