Summer does she know you want to use the money for DE'S . Sounds like she is purposefully doing it to be spiteful I don't know though what I would do if I was you. It is almost impossible for me to consider the idea of giving up my own baby in the same circumstances and throwing money down the drain in court when it doesn't have to be that way. But she just keeps taking more and more time away doesn't she. I really feel so sorry for you to even be back in this position when you were so close to settling. You poor thing ((huge hugs)).