oh no @rockalee so sorry to hear about the extra stress from your DP. that's not good. true, none of us would choose to do it this way if we had the choice. could he/you both go see the counselor to talk about his concerns (or talk about it yourselves once your meds have worn off & head is clearer). it might help to talk about it. or to talk with a friend. it's more common than people talk about if that helps him. my DP seemed to appreciate it all more once he found out his previous boss/mentor had gone through it also (+ a group of my friends, but he noticed it more when it was another guy)
in other news, congrats on 4 eggs! that's a great result. for a good fert rate tomorrow.