thanks so much @Precious40 thats a great story. Im really hoping (trying not to get my hopes up!! yeh like thats working) that this lady we are chatting to will be our donor, she's someone that both of us feel is a person we would be friends with if we had met in life.. She seems to think in similar ways to myself and I nearly cried when I read her most current email, out of WOW she's the perfect person for this. Its made me realise just how amazing these women are who would do such a thing, what an amazing gift for someone. Makes me teary!!
We are going to our first meet up this sunday, initially the idea of going to a meet up wasn't great, but the more Ive been on the forum I feel like its actually nice to have a community of people who are doing the same thing. It makes it feel less weird I suppose. You realise that actually theres tons of people out there who have gone through similar or worse and who are embracing the option too. Its nice. I don't know if that helps the undecided ladies in here any? Just to know that even though its total foreign and puts you out of your comfort zone, it can actually end up being a good experience. And there ain't much in this frucked up world of infertility that you can say that about. Lets just hope we have a baby or 2 at the end of it all, one way or another.