DS2 is just over 2 weeks old and seems to have his days and nights mixed up. He seems to sleep fairly well during day, whether at home or out. But come night time he is really hard to settle and seems to fight sleep. I get stuck in a cycle of feed, settle repeat every hour or so, he falls asleep but wakes himself up shortly after, and this is regardless of whether he is being held or in his bassinet. I don't believe it's a cluster feed situation, had those last week but this is different. He doesn't seem hungry when he wakes, (although do feed him if he will take it, although have had a few instances where this has backfired as he is full and spits it back up). He just can't seem to stay asleep and gets increasingly overtired.
Have tried various swaddles (which work during day), dummy, music, rocking, wearing, bassinet, our bed, our chests, tv on, tv off, night light on, pitch black darkness. I can't seem to figure it out.
He's not crying or screaming but not sleeping so noisy and eventually does start crying as he cant soothe himself.
I can't keep feeding him just so he sleeps for 10 mins.
I know it's early days and anything could be the cause but the fact he is sleeping really well during day has me thinking he has got his day and night confused.
Any tips or advice? It's happening again tonight have been trying to get him to sleep unsuccessfully for 4 hours 😭