This will be long sorry.
At Christmas I asked fil & his partner take kids to zoo they never did. Always asking them do things they say they will get back me etc never do. Unless it's to big note them self. Eg they bought car seats but the kids have never even been in them? Like why even buy them! At Christmas I asked if they could give $20 towards bikes instead of whatever they wanted because we wanted decent presents not Kmart junk eg 20 X $3 presents. I find it offensive. As kids don't play with it.
As most know (who follow my posts anyway) know we have moved interstate again.
DH left before us as we wanted to secure employment, then a house. (He already had the job but the probation)
I then had to clean, fix, pack, look after kids on my own. Very tiring as most would know who have had to do this!! Army mums/Fifo mums or single mums! I saw most people but it was hard I was in a rush. Flustered etc. FIL Said he couldn't help at all but would catch up. He never did but had dinner with SIL. Mil minded kids so I could do a final clean. That night SIL went out with FIL (they are divorced). So I thought that was strange. Cos the kids weren't visited. (They are a close divorced family) we do xmas's etc).
My FIL has proceeded to ignore us from Jan. We are now in Launceston. There's been a miscommunication. We have sent text messages.) been ignored. He isn't speaking to us. I sent a text last week saying hello blah blah.
I can't drive. So when I was busy cleaning, packing etc. I was meant to get to his house 2 hours away. He told MIL he's cut us off. I'm hurt for DH. But was DS's second birthday and he didn't even call for that. Should I just leave it? Thanks.