Most of you know I recently moved to Canberra. Dh has joined a footy team. So he trains Tues and Wed nights 6-8pm. He plays on Saturday and apparently needs to be there 2hrs before a game and 1HR after. So per week including travel he is away 9-10hrs per week.
Is this normal? He works very long hours on non footy days so is out 7.30/8am-6.30/7pm. Then this. I am building a support network here but seriously for the time he is away I should have just stayed in Brisbane with my folks.
How much time do you think is appropriate to spend on sport? Before it was cross fit and I had to chuck the biggest tanty up get him to reduce his hours.
I tried to talk to him about it and he got angry and said I was being ridiculous. Every man plays sport. This is how he was going to make friends.
Am I being unreasonable? If yes please say it gently as I'm very upset already.