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    Quote Originally Posted by Maxwellsmum View Post
    @BlondeinBrisvegas how are you going hun? How's the ExDP have things settled down a bit from the heart ache of a few days ago? break ups are so friggen hard aren't they and your DD, how is she going? Hope you and your DD are well. @winsor how have you been today, your in my thoughts
    I'm going good thanks Luv

    I laid out my "terms and conditions" to him on Thurs night. Told him I'll go to counselling with an open mind and heart though I'm not promising anything as neither of us can say what will happen/be the end result.

    I also told him he needed to go to counselling on his own (back to the Psychologist he was seeing a few years ago and whom he liked when he had a flare up with his back...It was covered by Workcover at the time) and that I still wanted him to move out as I needed/wanted my own space plus things were bound to get heated in counselling from time to time and I didn't want that spilling over in front of DD which would be sure to happen if he still lived here.

    Plus it will be easier for us both to move on if counselling doesn't achieve a reconciliation with neither of us, especially DD, having to go through him packing up and leaving the house a second time. To his credit, he agreed even though I know given the choice, he'd want to stay but I'm definitely not up for that!!!

    Ever since, he's gone on the "charm offensive" buying me flowers, helping out more around the house with chores, spending more time with DD etc which all is rather lovely, don't get me wrong, but it's going to take a lot more than flowers and suddenly turning into "Sadie the cleaning lady" to fix this mess and I'm not really sure if that's what I want to be honest.

    I think I'll know the answer once he's gone and we start counselling. DD is doing really well too She's been walking independently for the last 2 weeks but has really increased the length/amount she can walk in this last week. Yesterday we took her to a "Picnic with the Easter Bunny" at the local shopping centre and she walked everywhere and only fell down on the odd occasion

    ETA- He's going to see his GP tomorrow/Tues arvo to get a Mental Health Plan organised so he can start sessions with the Psychologist asap.
    Last edited by BlondeinBrisvegas; 20-03-2016 at 20:11.

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    I reckon you should ditch all of it except the bare minimum and try it. none of those treatments have worked for you so far, it's the no drugs that did. Worth thinking about I would say.

    fruck the gestone!!

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    @Tahli Could always ditch it all and try that approach with your last frostie over there??

    It would buy you some more time to get the $ together for another fresh Cycle/PGS and then again, it just might bloody work!!!

    Yep, fruck the gestone Luv!! Stop all meds and eat some more easter eggs!!!

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    @Tahli me hopefully post scratch and flush end of march ill be starting stims early April

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    Quote Originally Posted by midnite01 View Post
    Ok ill start no shagging tonight though we had a lovely afternoon in the yarra valley sipping wine listening to a cover band and eating truck food. My sister and bil currently staying with us.

    That sounds like fun Luv!!

    I would've added (quite) a few vodka, lime and soda's to the mix myself!!!

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    Hahaha not with a running toddler and needing to drive back.

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    Quote Originally Posted by infinity888 View Post
    @Tahli me hopefully post scratch and flush end of march ill be starting stims early April
    On a final OE cycle or a DE cycle? I'm so sorry that I've lost track of where every-one's at!!
    PS: Opps, you mentioned stims so I'm guessing it's a final OE cycle??
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    @BlondeinBrisvegas That option has certainly played on my mind. I can weigh up my options while it takes 3/4 days for AF to arrive. I've been all practical and energised since I've felt like 'me' again today, but oh my is the emotional crash going to arrive like a tsunami this week.
    Not only did I not take the Gestone tonight I didn't do my Crinone either, such a rebel!!
    Yes, more Easter eggs, brilliant idea! And I finally saw the ice-cream tubs you girls have been talking about in Woolies this week...Peppermint Crisp etc. Bring it on!!!
    @Blossom where's your Sunday baking pic?
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    Default IVF over 40 #28

    Afraid I can't help you with any shagging stories as my DP won't touch me with a barge pole - too worried about the fragile little bubs that are kicking the lungs out of me. Looks like I'm on about a 3-4 month dry spell waaah. And THEN I'll be too tired to bother after that

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    Maybe something battery operated would do the job?!

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