Right, now this POAS business. I think it's still too early to start ladies At present I am only 6 days past a 2 day transfer so by my calculations Baby Cakes should be busy burying into my lining but has not yet started to excrete HCG. I got my BFP with Blossom at 6 days post a 5 day transfer which in and of itself was pretty early (11dpo). Not that I don't love peeing on things but I don't want to waste precious sticks either!
So start Saturday maybe? (11dpo?) What's the consensus? Or should I start tomorrow?
Oh ladies the last 2 days I am crying at the drop of a hat! I was cranky with my side of the family yesterday for a number of reasons and cried at my desk at work. I also feel very swollen in the ovaries when I lay down but more so on the right side. I am wondering if it's another BFN and my body is overreacting to the PROG.
14 dpt BT today, results tomorrow
Thanks gorgeous girls!!! I feel physically amazing (no Metformin lastnight!) and am so excited to be boarding that plane at 8.30pm tonight. On Friday, I arrive at 8am (Fri night Oz time) and have to call the lab at 9am to see how my 2 embryos have thawed. It's been such a long build-up to this transfer, 3 full months, that I'm just so flipping excited today!! Thaw well my babies!!!!
@Tahli "Good Morning and welcome to BFFP Airlines. This is your first boarding call for flight FET flying to CFC at 20.30 tonight"
Whoot-Whoot!!! This is it Luv!!
"Project Sibling" is underway!!!
and prayers being sent!!!!
@Tahli all the best for today, travel safe and bring that BFFP home! I hope you have a nice relaxing massage at the winery (love the sound of that place) and a good trip all round. How are you feeling today?
@Charlie74 sorry to hear you've been feeling so low, its inevitable to have these dips into a dark place every now and then, just know that they come and go and I think its part of the grieving process and that fear of the unknown. Its almost the hardest part of all this, the unknown, because if we could know from the start what was going to end up happening then at least you could work your way through it from the beginning. Take care of yourself and do something nice this weekend. Start getting into planning all the things you will do on your o/s trip - thats really something to look forward to and who knows, the holiday and the meds might just be the right combo for your oven and frosty. xx
@Blossom74 maybe start at 10dpo, friday. Its still early but it has happened, so either way you are still in the race whatever it shows.
cmon baby cakes!!
@Caesardust don't you just LOVE that sh!t! grrr I used to work with a bunch of twenty somethings and they were such b!tches when I look back now. They love teaming up and knowing it all together and none of them would ever stand out from the crowd and be an individual. One day when they have experienced some stuff they might have more of a position to judge. And if you had of stepped in and said your bit, they'd be judging that too. Stay out of it I say. I had quite a number of people at my old job that knew I had been through losses and Im sure they told other people and it was hard to deal with as a lot of them were b!tches and you knew there was talk behind my back, so I wish I hadn't of told anyone in there anything. Sounds like you rose above it all, good on you x
yes bib what's cooking today??
@Lastround Welcome! And good luck for your blood test results tomorrow!! @Blossom74 I start POAS at 8dpo b/c I have no self control. I got my squinter bfp a few cycles ago at 9dpo, but with a hatching blast. I reckon you'll know when the time is right. It might give you something to look forward to on the weekend if you can last that long! Snuggle in Baby Cakes!!
@Charlie74 Thanks heaps for touching base to let us know how you're getting on. You have been on the longest marathon ever to get to transfer, then it was cancelled, and now the finish line for your transfer has moved even further out. It's such a ridiculously looong time frame for any woman to have to sustain. It must be heading up to a year from cycling to proposed transfer?? Please get some professional help for your precious mind hun. I actually think the timeline you're having to deal with is near damn impossible to stay sane. Massive massive hugs, xxxx.
@infinity888 My sister asked me the same question...can my DS call 000 if he can't wake Mummy. He can't. I wish we still had old fashioned plugged into the wall home phones where pass-codes aren't required. But you're right I need to sort him out with an emergency plan b/c 2 nights ago was ridiculously scary and I took a huge risk not going to a hospital. I should have. I have to take my half dose of Metformin now & I'm sh~t scared about what it's gong to do. I need to drive my cat to the cattery etc so I need to be able to safely function!!
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