Safe travels tomorrow night @Tahli
@Charlie74 hope your days get brighter xx. I saw a Psycologist last week. She's asked me to start writing things down. I think this might be hard at first. But I'm hoping it will help. We have stories to tell. Even if they are just to ourselves xxx
@Tahli. Good luck tomorrow. Have a safe flight
@Blossom74. The EDA website is a lovely place to meet ur future bubbas. They have a Fb page also. I'm very active on the Fb page. Come join us on both xx
(I'm hoping bc is nestling in while I'm saying this)
hello lovely ladies xxx
@Tahli all the best of luck for a safe trip and a perfect thaw of those lovely embies. Can't wait for you to be pupo!
@Blossom74 I'm cheering you on from the sidelines here.
@bib been doing anymore cooking that we can drool over this week?
@Charlie74 thinking of you and hoping you can get back out in the air, look after yourself and build back some of that hope again. The medication might work. Try to focus on that however hard it is I know. X
Afm I had the joy of being an outsider on a conversation between one of my pregnant team members in her 20's and her 3 other 20+ year old colleagues about how it was alright to get pregnant up until 35 but after that there's not much chance and it's dangerous. They talked about the pressure they are feeling to have a baby by their partners and themselves. I was almost choking. I didn't know whether I wanted to tell them that you're only 20 odd for gods sake or to say do it now and avoid the nightmare I'm in or to say you've all got no damn idea about anything!!! Of course I said nothing and slowly shrank further into my desk chair hoping to not be pulled into the conversation.
Today is a new day though. I've given up on getting the hospital paperwork from my current FS. I've chased it up 5 times now which I think is enough. I'm booked in for a lap on 12/04 with monash and organising everything to start a cycle straight after it. 6 weeks to continue detoxing yay!
@Charlie74, I'm so sorry things are a struggle for you ATM hon.
I think to a degree we all feel that desperation, as our time and resources start to near their end. I only wish I had some advice as to how to deal with the final outcome (whatever that may be) but I'm at a loss and struggling to cope with the prospect myself. The only silver lining is that you have some great company beside you in this sh!tty, TTC/IVF leaking boat.
Sending you big hugs
@Caesardust, big hugs for you too hon. And yes, I would have stepped back from that conversation too. These 20 year old whipper-snappers have no idea what REAL worries are IMO. You have better things to do than engage in their frivolous BS
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