oh gosh, there needs to be an over 40s group hug!
@Gagingi Im so sorry to hear that, I forgot you were cycling so had no idea. Take care and I hope you get news that you have some embies. big hugs
@Charlie74 Blonde has said it well, try not to get ahead of things as hard as I know it is. Focus on your holiday coming up, leaving some of this IVF shiz behind whilst you're having a break is for the best. Oh and yes totally agree about the jealousy thing, she's been tied to the kids for her whole youth when we were out having a great life. Ten points to her as she had kids early...and now she's 40 and mid life crisis is maybe hitting. People are also ignorant of how that might have upset you. Dont focus on it, its her issue not yours.
@Tahli I hear ya, 8/9/10 are the worst I think too as its too early to get an answer so you're just going out of your bloody mind analysing everything. And about your ex-husband, Im so appalled by that, BIB summed it well. Thats so unbelievably awful I hope he got burned by that gf or whoever, anyone!! Some people have got no shame, and to do that to your wife. Makes me so mad. Keep up the chocolate goodies - whatever gets you through I say. I wouldn't be worried about the caffeine. Seal up that bubble right now!!!
@winsor Ive been to epas a number of times and it does get super busy so if you do want to go in the morning get there early, I think it opens at 7 but if you can be there before it you will get seen quicker, otherwise it can be a long wait. I hope everything is ok, big hugs
@BlondeinBrisvegas nice that you're getting lots of DD cuddles but bad thats she's sick, poor little thing. Guys are less able to cope with being alone, I think thats very common amongst them. My DH always had girlfriends whereas I was mostly single with the odd rendezvous and a couple of relationships, I liked being single. Good when he moves out though as that stuff can make things messy in the beginning hey. Hope DD improves and is much better tomorrow