@Charlie74 @Tahli Well...what a pair of crunts (yes, I'm pulling THAT word out because they deserve it!!) those A/holes were hey???
I don't know if I've given the impression my Ex was cheating from my post yesterday...he wasn't, he only joined those sites I posted about after we'd separated (I've had access to his email, phone etc from my computer for years not to keep tabs just because it's easier for me to go grab what I need to do whatever I've needed to do being the captain of the "Mothership" here).
Honestly, what a pair of Pr*cks!! Both better off without them and have proven that by moving on in one way or another and being bloody happier for it!!!
@Tahli Now, don't be letting the "BFN Blues" get to you Luv, you know it's far too bloody early!!!!
I know how badly you want it and the thought of it all failing etc, plus the hormonal sh!tstorm you're caught up in with all the Leutal support...the pressure and stress just gets too much sometimes. Take comfort in your chocolate and ice-cream Luv. You have my full permission to give the comfort eating a bloody good nudge!!
@Charlie74 Your friend sounds like she was more than a bit judgy and insensitive not to mention unsupportive of you. Why she was being a biatch to you who knows???
I'll tell you what I think though....I think in a weird way that she's jealous of you Luv Not of the IVF, but of the fact you've had all of your adult life to live it just the way you please. You got a career, have probably travelled, had love and romance, could come and go as you please, etc, etc and for her, well, she chose to continue on with a pregnancy when she was quite young and then having a couple more kids to boot which effectively have taken up her life.
She hasn't gotten to experience what you have and never will because those young, carefree days are gone and you can't have them back and just maybe she's feeling a bit dissatisfied with her lot at the end of the day?? Either way, no need to be a nasty biatch about it to you.