@Blossom im so sorry hon. I would say hold out til tomorrow but if deep down you know it hasn't worked then i cant argue with that. I'm going to hold out til tomorrow for you though. As far as connections go on EDA i really believe you wont have a problem i think your very good at that. As @cheifsgirl said both her and i would give you some if we could so there will be others im sure. Hang in there. Dont lose hope yet. Xx
I just feel it's so bl00dy unfair. I am a good person. I always try to do the right thing.
Why is it asking so much to have something that everyone else - everyone not doing IVF - takes for granted.
All I've ever wanted is to hold my own baby in my arms. I've sat back and watched friend after friend, and both of my sisters have babies. I've always done the honorable thing and have been excited and helped them celebrate as they bought more and more children into their families.
And I'm sitting here with empty arms. The pain is just so overwhelming.
Blossom74 I don't think you would have trouble making connections, your lovely personality comes shining through so clearly. I'm sorry you are in so much pain right now but, for what it's worth, I think you will have a baby in your arms eventually, one way or another.
It breaks my heart to hear you say you do the honorable thing with your friends and family because I do know how very hard that can be. Not being able to cope with that joy from other people was one of my greatest fears.
thanks @Corbes. yes, we're going to get the NIPT blood test done. and probably have the scan also. my embie is untested so it's hard to know. I hope everything's ok. just checking if I can have the NIPT done at RPA also or if I should go to Genea for this, since my doctor said the processing is all done at Genea anyway.
OK booked NIPT at Genea (Glebe) for 28th. all ok
thanks for the tip @Corbes. she wanted to know when I was 10 weeks, so I gave her a 10week few days date. I hope the bub has caught up by then and all is ok. we have another scan next mon which I think is 9weeks (still a bit confused by the dates as there's differences with the scan date and LMP calculated date, by a few days). hopefully can relax this week. then it's scan/BT/something each week into mid april
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