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    @Blossom74 Hope they approve your registration soon!! I'm very interested on what you'll be finding out!!!

    Yes Luv, I remember those feelings you describe oh so well The stress of this whole gig is bad enough, but the emotional toll the 2WTorture takes (and that's why I do call it the 2WTorture because it bloody-well is!!!) is enourmous!!!

    Throw in the Progesterone and/or Pregnyl and it's a hormonal/emotional/mental sh!tstorm all round!!

    Big for you Luvxo

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    @MissDa, I'm glad you have a plan. that does sound confronting though in the clinic. hugs. I'm sorry your DP isn't chipping in. maybe he feels disconnected from the whole process? I hope he comes around soon

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    yes, @Blossom74, the tww is really stressful. would going for a walk help? I've found it's helped me when my thoughts start going off on what-if scenarios. (plus I often come home with groceries so then there's things to eat)

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    Quote Originally Posted by MissDa View Post
    Hi all
    I finally have a little update after meeting with FS yesterday to discuss up coming DE cycle. I asked about
    -endo scratch and lipodil (?spelling) he said don't waste your money on endo scratch your uterus isn't the problem your problem is no embryos!
    He said I could call around radiology places to see if they'll the do flush, has anyone done that?
    He also said I could take aspirin, unfortunately I'm highly allergic to that.
    I could take prednisone but I know some of you have persevered with it but I hate that drug, my mum was on it for a few years and has many residual health problems so I just won't take it.
    I then had to wait to see the DE nurse, whilst I was waiting it must of been "bring your IVF success story" to the clinic day! I was surrounded!!!!! Even the nurse said " jeez that's a bit confronting" and then I cried. Note to self if I do have my "success story" make sure clinic is empty or don't come in at all!!!!!
    The DE nurse sent through the plan and when I read through all the dates I started to feel sick with stress- am I really going to do all this again and dates fall right around my birthday, after Xmas day devastation surely the gods won't ruin my birthday as well????
    DP making zero effort from his side of things, starting to feel like we are at a crossroads in this relationship, our priorities are different it's like he doesn't even care!!!! Grrrrr
    Sorry for long rant
    Hope everyone is going okay X

    I agree with @Blossom74...it's a start Luv and you gotta start somewhere right???

    I've dropped my bundle many a time in the waiting room of both my FS's..and gone through plenty of kleenex when having my appointments too. You can only take so much of other people's happiness sometimes as bad as that sounds, but it's true and will be while you're still struggling to get your BFFP

    Yes, I'd be frucked right off with your DP as well Luv.....Making no effort is unacceptable!!! Being a bald faced liar about it and deceiving you is even worse IMO!!! Either he commits to the process and does what he NEEDS to do to give you both the best chance of a BFFP or else put your cards on the table Mate and be honest about your intentions I say!!! Don't go around being half a r s e d about it. He needs to demonstrate to you that doing the supplements/IVF/creating a family with you is as much a priority to him as it is to you so he needs to put some frucking verbs in his sentences!!!!!

    Big hugs for you too Luv

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    You ladies are all awesome
    Thank you x

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    @Tahli im glad your meds have been reduced as going unconscious while sleeping is possible if your bsl drops to low which it sounds like it was close to. I know it sounds extreme but does your ds know how to call 000 if he cant wake up mummy.?

    @Blossom74 if i ever get my take home babies and i have a frostie left you can have it i promise. Unfortunately my eggs while just 38yrs old probably aren't much better than yours luv and tbh i dont usually get a frostie but if the gods and the universe smile on me with my nxt round ill let you know i promise. Baby cakes will be your sticky one though fx. xx

    @faithhopenlove i know this probably wont help much but if your frosties are from this same batch as your current bubba then your nxt bubba and this bubba will still technically be twins but say 18months apart. I hope this doesn't upset you in any way hon as this definitely isnt my intention xx i hope wish and pray everything runs smoothly for you now.

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    My power just came back on went out at 3 am and was out for 12 hrs. Oh the joys. Have had a quick catch up and a good cry after reading @faithhopeloves last post. Of course you want your baby back Hun xx Try to get some sleep but as I have heard and this goes for you to @Blossom74 that sleep is very beneficial in pregnancy for nurturing bubs and Mum's. I take melatonin from time to time to help me but please check with your FS before taking anything as not sure if it should be taken when pregnant. Wazza puts us on it when we stim but only until EPU day. Someone mentioned having a cry in the IVF clinic. We all have Hun, and in coffee shops and in the super market IVF and repeat IVF is bloody hard I reckon even after you get a BFP the scars prob still hurt. I can't imagine ever moving on from the pain of infertility it is a drawn out heart wrenching process I have always said I wouldn't even wish it on my worst enemy. Hugs to those who need it today 😘

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    Quote Originally Posted by winsor View Post
    yes, @Blossom74, the tww is really stressful. would going for a walk help? I've found it's helped me when my thoughts start going off on what-if scenarios. (plus I often come home with groceries so then there's things to eat)

    I would go for a walk hon, but it's 40 bl00dy degrees outside and I thought considering where I'm at (possibly implantation day) it was maybe better not to push my luck!

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    I am so blessed to have you all in my life. How amazingly supportive you all are.

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