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    @faithandhopellove Oh Luv....

    I can't imagine how emotionally torturous this must be for you Of course you want your other bubba back Luv!!! So bloody unfair!!!

    I'm glad your OB is doing weekly scans now and I can definitely see why you're feeling anxious and scared for your other bub. How many more weeks have you got to go?? You had the NIPT testing done didn't you???

    Am thinking of you and sending you much strength and love as I think these remaining weeks will require you to dig deep and find a level of strength and courage to help you to get through until both bubs are delivered (I'm assuming you will be having a C-section??).

    No doubt there will be times where you think you can't do it, but you can and you will!!! Please reach out to organisations like SANDS or a Psychologist who deals in grief counselling etc if you need some more support to help you through ok?? Don't try to do it all by yourself and like @Blossom74 said, we are all here for you tooxoxoox

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    @Tahli Am glad you're feeling much better Luv though that incident last night sounds bloody awful!!!

    Good idea about halving the dose and no doubt you've built up a healthy level of the stuff in your system after taking it for 4 weeks so don't worry about not having enough of it for transfer.

    Speaking of.........Almost time for your boarding call!!!!


    @Blossom74 That's a great idea about looking into embryo donation Luv

    Of course, Baby Cakes is going to stick to you like glue and it will all turn out to be a non-event!!!

    and prayers being sent for Baby Cakes getting comfy for the long haul!!!!

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    @Bongley Good news about the passport Luv.

    How is your brother/niece holding up??? Probably still in bloody shock!!


    @Lastround and prayers being sent for your BT tomorrow!!!!

    Will you POAS after you get them done or wait it out for a result then POAS for posterity????


    @tuxcat That sounded like a PITA this morning getting to work!!!

    Hope you made it in eventually!!!


    Hello to all the other Lovelies too........

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    Ah, what a feckin' day. Two hours of Telstra conversations trying to fix my God-awful internet. NOW the fire is back in the belly



    Hiya @BIB Yes, I've just registered on EDA so waiting for 'approval' to access the information. Will be interesting to consider, although I do hope you're right and I never bl00dy need it!


    I remember feeling this way pre-Blossom, you know? Alternating between crying and anger, losing my shiz for no apparent reason, scattered, not coping. There is just so much pressure on us all.


    A Golden Gaytime has lifted my mood somewhat.

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    Hi all
    I finally have a little update after meeting with FS yesterday to discuss up coming DE cycle. I asked about
    -endo scratch and lipodil (?spelling) he said don't waste your money on endo scratch your uterus isn't the problem your problem is no embryos!
    He said I could call around radiology places to see if they'll the do flush, has anyone done that?
    He also said I could take aspirin, unfortunately I'm highly allergic to that.
    I could take prednisone but I know some of you have persevered with it but I hate that drug, my mum was on it for a few years and has many residual health problems so I just won't take it.
    I then had to wait to see the DE nurse, whilst I was waiting it must of been "bring your IVF success story" to the clinic day! I was surrounded!!!!! Even the nurse said " jeez that's a bit confronting" and then I cried. Note to self if I do have my "success story" make sure clinic is empty or don't come in at all!!!!!
    The DE nurse sent through the plan and when I read through all the dates I started to feel sick with stress- am I really going to do all this again and dates fall right around my birthday, after Xmas day devastation surely the gods won't ruin my birthday as well????
    DP making zero effort from his side of things, starting to feel like we are at a crossroads in this relationship, our priorities are different it's like he doesn't even care!!!! Grrrrr
    Sorry for long rant
    Hope everyone is going okay X

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    Well @MissDa, a plan is a plan. You have a starting point and something to hope for, so that has to be a good thing, right? Honestly, I don't ever think there is a 'right time' for IVF. It is a pain in the proverbial no matter when it's scheduled for!

    If aspirin is out, would your Doctor prescribe Clexane shots? I think that does roughly the same thing and whilst I can't say they're painless, well, they are easy enough to do.

    I feel for you with your relationship. IVF places such a huge amount of stress on us and partner support is essential to survival IMO. Like you, I have been frustrated with my DH on more than one occasion. I have dealt with our MC virtually without a word from him, and whilst everyone says 'he feels it but just doesn't say it' that doesn't help support me. And frankly, with 4 children of his own, sometimes I feel like IVF is not a priority to him as it is to me.

    Many times I have questioned our relationship. I still wonder if it will be enough should we never have a baby. We are very disconnected and my husband simply doesn't say anything about his feelings. I could nag and nag til the cows come home and all I'd get is "Well, there's no point complaining about it."

    So yes. I'm sending you big hugs. It's a tough gig.

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    Thanks @Blossom74
    That's exactly how I feel "disconnected"
    Not only was he not taking the supplements the FS gave him he blatantly lied to my face about it. Since then I can hardly look at him.
    I know it sounds terrible but if I was 30 I wouldn't question walking away.

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    @BlondeinBrisvegas no I cant POAS I want the fantasy lol I am hopeless, just find POAS far too stressfull and I feel like I am cheating on DH finding out before him.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lastround View Post
    @BlondeinBrisvegas no I cant POAS I want the fantasy lol I am hopeless, just find POAS far too stressfull and I feel like I am cheating on DH finding out before him.


    Once you both find out though, and it's good news, will you POAS then? Just for me?! It is a special moment to hold that stick up and see two magical pink lines. Plus, you can keep it forever in a memory box

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    Quote Originally Posted by MissDa View Post
    Thanks @Blossom74
    That's exactly how I feel "disconnected"
    Not only was he not taking the supplements the FS gave him he blatantly lied to my face about it. Since then I can hardly look at him.
    I know it sounds terrible but if I was 30 I wouldn't question walking away.

    That's just bl00dy deceitful. It would be a real test of my patience if my DH did something like that to me. After all the cr@p we have to go through, to not even be able to swallow a few pills...? I think you've every right to be P.O'd.


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