faithandhopellove good grief, what is wrong with people. Any sentence that begins with "At least.." should just remain unsaid. There are no silver linings with such a loss.
Faithandhopelove I'm so sorry you had to listen to your insensitive "friend". Some people don't a clue. At least here with us you are safe from that kind of talk. Feel free to share with is anything. Big hugs xo
@faithandhopelove - having been in a similar situation of grief and loss (my daughter was born at 28 weeks), I realised that people just don't know the right thing to say - they don't mean anything bad , they just don't know what the right thing is and some people feel uncomfortable so they just say something, anything. I had to remind myself at the time that they weren't trying to hurt me or make me feel worse. I could give a list of silly things people said - a few of my faves - it's gods will ( well I don't believe in God), these things happen to people who have the strength to cope with them ( great, glad I'm so strong) , it would be worse if you didn't already have a child ( no actually the grief is still real and acute despite that).
The grief is different for everyone, but you will come out the other side eventually. I did.
I think I know your friend She must be the same girl who told me after my MC that 'it's not like there was a proper baby anyway.' As you said hon, NFI.
It's very early on, O know, but if you feel that you need help I can really recommend SANDS. I contacted them, via email at first (because I didn't think at the time that I could have held my shiz together long enough to actually 'speak' about our loss) and they were just so supportive and understanding. Sadly, each of the girls there have been through similar things themselves and come out the other end to be able to offer those who follow this sad road their experience. Anyway, don't hesitate to get onto them love, they are great.
OK ladies, I am now officially POAS's
Today is only 7 days post 2 day transfer (or 9dpo).
According to the 3 day transfer notes (less 1 day, as mine was only a 2 day'er) today is the day where Baby Cakes should be continuing his/her implantation and the morula burying deeper into the lining.
As I expected, I got nothing on the test HCG is not meant to start going into the blood until Sunday.
But dammit, I couldn't hold out any longer
Well today is going to go one of two ways, if BFN a bottle of Vodka will be consumed and a few tears shed!
OR BFP! With much excitement & anxiety as its been 10 years TTC.
If it's a BFN we have 2 5d embies on ice that we wil Tx in May and that's it. Last round
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