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    thanks @Gagingi, yes I stopped playing the song after he said this and found my headphones since then. I'll keep an eye on things and try be more considerate of him also - I hadn't realised it would annoy him so much

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    Ditto for testing positive to urea plasma and going on Doxy. It's a standard test with our FS. Anything that helps!

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    @Charlie74 and @Tahli thanks so much. The tip of large glass of water will definitely be used. I dont want any pain. I think its a 7 day course? Anyway should be finished before my cycle in april. Fx it doesn't effect anything. It will be interesting to see what happens with implantation this time as ive only had 1 chemical and 1 mc in 7 cycles. I have everything crossed that this is my missing link. However with the wazza special and scratch and flush plus immune stuff i guess i wont know whats worked and what hasnt if it does. Please let me know if you think im getting prematurely excited.

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    @winsor it sounds to me you are finding comfort where you can which is great news. You sound very self aware and completely normal to me. Counciling would help i think even to navigate dh reactions etc. Its tough on the men as well isnt it. Usually they are grieving but what usually appears after inital reaction is very worried and protective of you but cant fix it for you so they get frustrated. Imo this can go two ways withdrawal and a get through it quickly attitude from them or thats it we are done with it all. After they realise you will be ok they are usually more reasonable. Just mo though luv. Sending hugs to you both. 😀

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    @Charlie74 and @Tahli - can I ask how do they check for urea plasma? Wazza is on holidays and I'm due a pap, but with my next scan on Good Friday with a fill-in I'm not sure if I can have it then and if I'd get results pre-FET. If it's bloods or EB then I'm sure it's been checked. Thanks.

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    Hi everyone

    Sorry I've been MIA and not doing personals the last few days - this thread moves really, really quickly!!! I've been fairly busy and am trying to get on top of a few things before Easter - and I've been trying to catch up after being away, we've had DSS and life is hectic!

    Thanks for thinking of me @infinity888 I haven't had a big talk to DH as yet, I've been building up to it by discussing other issues that aren't as big and testing the waters to make sure that we're in a good place before I go there Having said that, he is much more open and responsive than he's been for a while, so I think we'll be able to have a talk over Easter when we've got some time together one-on-one and hopefully get a plan in place. Now that you've mentioned that Mycoplasma thingy I'm busting to get tested for it too. I've had every test under the sun, but not sure if that was done when I saw Wazza? But it's probably worth asking for when I see my FS next. If I'm game to see him again after cancelling the Hysteroscopy...

    @Blossom74 that's great that you're moving ahead and @Tahli I don't envy your decision making process, it is all so difficult isn't it when you've gone through what you've gone through... I hope some answers can be found.

    Good news about your DD @BlondeinBrisvegas so happy for you

    @Tahli I could tentatively be added to that list. I'm going to talk to DH this weekend and likely push for either a June or August DE date. I still have to try one cycle with OE first and I'm thinking that will be the end of April. At least I'll know one way or the other within the ten days of stims if I make any follies or not, so if not, then it will be DE all the way.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gagingi View Post
    How are you traveling @BlondeinBrisvegas? You seem extra busy this week (or is that just being a mum pre-Easter)?
    No...just extra busy Luv...Don't have time to scratch my a r s e again today!!

    Had speech therapy with DD this morning, then raced down to the shop, back home for lunch and DD has just gone down for her nap then off again when she wakes up over to my sisters place for a visit.

    I've also been taking DD down to the park in the late arvo (4pm-5pm) for an hour to burn off some energy walking around the place!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by infinity888 View Post
    @Rubywoohoo good luck. Fx for a smooth transfer tomorrow.

    @winsor how are you today hun? Im thinking of you gracie and your dh. Have you thought about your next step yet?

    @Blossom good luck at the bank today lovely.

    Afm i called wazza today he is on hols but they suggested i call gp. Gp is lovely and honest said she didn't know much about it but I made an appointment with her this arvo and she said sge will study up between now and then bless her. Anyway my research says dh and i should both be on it for 7 days i think. Fx it doesn't effect egg quality....thats both infection and AB's. Time will tell i guess.

    @Summer how are things for you lovely? Have you sorted your next plan out with your dh yet?

    Am sure Wazza would've told you if either the infection/AB's to treat it would compromise your egg quality. There's no way he'd prescribe or recommend having anything prescribed that would do that Luv.

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    thanks @infinity888 yes, I need to keep an eye on DP more. he's been sad but hasn't really grieved and cried like I have. and he's mostly been focusing on me - he said his protector role kicked in more (it's been on high alert since we found we were pg), so what you've said is good to keep in mind. I asked him if he thought this would trigger his depression/anxiety but he didn't think it would so he seems to be handling things ok. or rather, he's holding things in more - I've been trying to have him talk things through.

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    Quote Originally Posted by winsor View Post
    thanks @infinity888. am going ok. easing back into work to keep me busy - I said I'd prob drop off in the afternoons as it's still a bit hard to concentrate. DP and I spoke about DE last night - not sure yet if he's onboard or just considering. I signed up for EDA site to find out more so will start some research. later that night I saw that a friend had worked on a piano/violin song called Grace so I was playing it on loop whilst he was sleeping. he came out and said I was being obsessive and to be careful of this (he'd been drinking & I don't think he likes ambient piano on loop ). I said, it's only been 2 days, I think this is to be expected. I've played songs/albums on loop heaps of time (& I find beautiful piano music very soothing). I didn't think there was anything wrong with this. anyway the RPA counsellor called this morning which was nice so I said I'd try see her in a couple of weeks. I think I'm handling things pretty well considering

    Hugs for you hon It is so very early into the piece, and if there is one thing I do know it's that there are no right or wrong ways to grieve.

    When I lost Blossom I went through a period of grief that was so raw that I just couldn't function. It was a good month before I attempted to get any work done, and even then I found that I had zero concentration span.

    I would burst into tears, fine one moment and a mess the next. I could just be sitting there internet surfing one minute, seemingly ok, and then bawling my eyes out the next.

    DH and I never spoke about our loss, and so aside from here I internalised my grief. To this day (6 months down the track) every time I have to speak about Blossom out loud I cry uncontrollably.

    If you have the offer to see a counsellor I would strongly advise you do that. I contacted SANDS myself and they were AMAZING. I emailed them at first because I couldn't speak about Blossom (nothing has changed in the respect) and they email back within a day. You can talk about things via your keyboard as often as you like, and these women - bless them - have sadly walked in our footsteps before. They know how to help you.

    They told me when I emailed that they have ways of leading a conversation so you can learn to speak about your loss out loud. I'm not there yet, but they were so very understanding. I really can't recommend them highly enough.

    Either way hon, I just wanted to let you know that what you're feeling is normal. Your DH will deal with his grief in a way that brings comfort to him. It may not be the same way you do it, but he will be just as lost as you are.

    Sending you both big hugs

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