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    @Rubywoohoo im so sorry to hear your news. I cant imagine how frustrating that would be for you. I am a low responder with therefore low expectations. If i got that many eggs i would have high expectations. However cleary we are the same but different. Still chasing that golden egg. Im learning that this ivf journey is different for everyone but we are all united by two things disappointment and HOPE. Sending you hugs. I hope you find your new plan soon.

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    @infinty888 is there a repeat? Otherwise you'll be done.

    I'm worried about an infection as IVF is making me paranoid , but I've heard of a number of women where Wazza has found an infection. Wazza did Pap at first appointment, but it wasn't clear and as I'd had one with FS#1 six months previously I didn't worry, but FS#1 ignored a lot... So I better.

    Are you aware of Wazza's upcoming leave? 22-30 March; 25 April-23 May: and 18-25 July - yikes!!! I think Charlotte is covering a bit, but she also has leave soon, so not total backup.
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    Quote Originally Posted by infinity888 View Post
    Afm. So as far as im concerned wazza may have solved the puzzle. WARNING TMI. He sent a letter today saying i have a cervical infection that effects fertility and implantation. Not usually tested for clearly as i thought i had been tested and cleared of all usual things. However this one causes PID. Can be asymptomatic which i am. Anyway antibiotics should clear it up. Sent script with letter bless him. Not sure how AB's will effect eggs and impending april cycle but still fx we have answers. Yippee
    Intereting you say this.... I too am on doxy for two weeks
    antibiotics for a possible infection

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    @winsor what a beautiful way to say goodbye to Grace. XXXX
    Please don't leave us x

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    @Blossom74. Just be careful about the personal loan. I'm on a fb page and a couple wanted a personal loan and said it was for iVF and they were declined due to the fact if it worked she would not be able to pay it back as she would be off work... Pretty tacky
    maybe not say for iVF.

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    @JulieM. Great to hear the babies are on track. I can't believe its less than nine weeks left. The time has flown past...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rubywoohoo View Post
    Hi lovelies - I've been a bit quiet last couple of days. It's not fab news -- out of a whopping 20 eggs retrieved last Thursday, only 4 fertilised. It looks as though all 4 embies arrested today. To add insult to injury, I have a mild-moderate case of hyperstim :-(

    This means that we've had a total of 50 eggs retrieved over 3 cycles, with nothing to transfer from any of it - no blasts, and only 1 partial morula once (a lagging day 6 one that didn't go further). DP and I were commiserating about our latest epic fail this afternoon, and we agreed that we feel like weird simultaneous over/underachievers :-)

    Our WTF meeting will happen soon. I wonder whether FS will suggest one more OE cycle with a changed protocol, or if he'll skip straight to the DE idea. DP is very against DE, but I'n starting to think it might be a good next plan.


    Oh hon, I'm so sorry. How very disappointing for you both.

    I agree that DE represents another possibility and a way to move forward. You could also consider a change of protocols, or even switching to another FS for a different point of view.

    Lots for you both to think about and discuss.

    Good luck which-ever way you choose to move forward

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    Quote Originally Posted by Petal40 View Post
    @Blossom74 we paid for our IVF with a personal loan. If you pass the criteria, they don't even ask you what it's for.

    Hmmm, well we can't afford to borrow anything - that's the truth of it. But we will do what we can and rearrange things to make it happen. Hopefully the bank looks at our good credit history and our combined income and can make something happen for us! The teller, when making the appointment for me yesterday, asked the purpose of the loan. I told her "Medical expenses." I am happy to talk to the Bank Manager about it if need be. DH is suggesting perhaps a credit card rather than a personal loan. We don't have capacity to get a small home loan I'm afraid. We will go where the interest rate and repayments are lowest!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Precious40 View Post
    @Blossom74. Just be careful about the personal loan. I'm on a fb page and a couple wanted a personal loan and said it was for iVF and they were declined due to the fact if it worked she would not be able to pay it back as she would be off work... Pretty tacky
    maybe not say for iVF.

    Oh that sucks! Luckily for me I work from home, and even if the IVF works my intention is to keep working as well as looking after the baby. I have also spoken to work about this and they are happy with the arrangement too. Hopefully that will reassure the bank's mind. Plus, DH and I want to get a joint personal loan if possible, in both of our names. That should help too. I hope!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Blossom74 View Post
    Hmmm, well we can't afford to borrow anything - that's the truth of it. But we will do what we can and rearrange things to make it happen. Hopefully the bank looks at our good credit history and our combined income and can make something happen for us! The teller, when making the appointment for me yesterday, asked the purpose of the loan. I told her "Medical expenses." I am happy to talk to the Bank Manager about it if need be. DH is suggesting perhaps a credit card rather than a personal loan. We don't have capacity to get a small home loan I'm afraid. We will go where the interest rate and repayments are lowest!
    We were pretty tight with $ and took $15000 over 5 years, repayments were $100 a week. 2 1/2 years in we decided to change our home loan, roll everything together, and we got some extra money for house renovations. It's actually costing is less in repayments now doing it that way & got rid of the personal loan. Just be careful with a credit card. If you can get one that's no interest for 12 months, great, but be aware of what the interest rate is when that period finishes as it will be higher than a personal loan interest rate. I'm sure if you're approved for an unsecured personal loan, what you use it for is up to you. We were up front about it & no one cared.
    Good luck

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