This is a spinoff from the thread about feminism and women's international day.
I would like to ask what is the work/home arrangement between you and your partner and was it a choice ?
For example both dh and I work. I was working part time for a while after having kids but went back full time. Dh is more ambitious than I am. He earns more money but also likes the challenge and wants to take on more senior roles. Me personally, I don't like the stress. I prefer a job that is less senior and this means also less pay. I see this as a choice though. There is nothing stopping me from going out and trying to get a higher paid and more senior role. I also know quite a lot of people who are similar. Their male partners earn more and they choose to do part time or less stressful jobs and spend more time with the kids. So when I see comparison of how men are in more senior roles and it's because of society or the system I ask is how much of this is a choice and how much is it due to gender inequality.
What is it like in your relationship ?