Has anyone here ever had problems with their sister in law wanting to copy your own major events (e.g engagement, getting married, TTC etc)?
My SIL is a lot younger than me (10 years) and seems very jealous that I am close to my MIL.
When we got engaged my MIL mentioned my SIL then started talking about wanting to herself and this continued even after the wedding. SIL even went to a wedding and baby expo with MIL for herself when we were the ones going through the two events, not her.
We are now TTC and MIL mentioned again SIL is now talking about this, even though she is not in an ideal position to do this (still lives at home, BF is only 19 and got his first ever job etc). The BF isn't interested in this yet but is being pressured by SIL (at least for the ring).
It is all very trivial but at the same time quite frustrating as it feels like SIL can't stand us having the limelight or me being close to MIL and wants everything we have, even though we have already established careers, house etc.
SIL even always becomes jealous like a child if MIL buys me a gift and asks where hers is (not in front of me of course).
I just want to tell her to grow up, that she was always bound to have a SIL and not be the only girl around!