+ Reply to Thread
Page 36 of 38 FirstFirst ... 263435363738 LastLast
Results 351 to 360 of 374
  1. #351
    Join Date
    Sep 2005
    Location
    Perth
    Posts
    8,544
    Thanks
    1,351
    Thanked
    2,307
    Reviews
    0
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 postsAmber Star - 2,000 postsAmethyst Star - 5,000 posts
    Quote Originally Posted by RuffledPansy View Post
    How will that work ..?
    It's backdated to the date you contact them .

  2. #352
    Join Date
    Jun 2008
    Location
    NSW
    Posts
    2,354
    Thanks
    165
    Thanked
    531
    Reviews
    0
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 postsAmber Star - 2,000 posts
    Quote Originally Posted by kiwimum890 View Post
    How did you go telling your kids he has left?
    I know it's wrong but I haven't done this yet ...I can't do it ...they are 8 and 5...

  3. #353
    Join Date
    Mar 2015
    Posts
    3,965
    Thanks
    706
    Thanked
    2,303
    Reviews
    0
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 postsAmber Star - 2,000 posts
    Quote Originally Posted by RuffledPansy View Post
    I know it's wrong but I haven't done this yet ...I can't do it ...they are 8 and 5...
    You have done Centrelink and CS. 2 big huge steps. Tell the kids this week. Let it be this week's job. Then next week contact Legal Aid. Just one thing at a time.

  4. The Following 4 Users Say Thank You to twinklify For This Useful Post:

    binnielici  (05-04-2016),Tiny Dancer  (05-04-2016),VicPark  (05-04-2016),Wise Enough  (05-04-2016)

  5. #354
    Join Date
    Mar 2014
    Posts
    1,257
    Thanks
    1,065
    Thanked
    813
    Reviews
    2
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 posts
    OP, just wanted to say that I am really proud of you for what you've achieved so far. You are doing so well.

  6. The Following User Says Thank You to Tiny Dancer For This Useful Post:

    VicPark  (08-04-2016)

  7. #355
    Join Date
    Oct 2011
    Posts
    385
    Thanks
    240
    Thanked
    264
    Reviews
    0
    How are you going OP? Are you planning on sorting out housing or telling the kids? Do you have support from your family and friends? I notice the first thing you did was arranging things with Centrelink, which is a good first step, but also the most easily reversed if you change your mind about leaving your husband. So I'm just wondering, and I hope you won't mind me asking but....well....on a scale of 1-10, how likely do you think it is that you are really splitting up permanently? As a distant observer, it looks like you're leaving the door open to get back together (maybe not consciously?) No judgment from me, just wondering....

  8. The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to Cdro For This Useful Post:

    delirium  (09-04-2016),ElizaDoLittle  (08-04-2016)

  9. #356
    Join Date
    Jun 2008
    Location
    NSW
    Posts
    2,354
    Thanks
    165
    Thanked
    531
    Reviews
    0
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 postsAmber Star - 2,000 posts
    Quote Originally Posted by Cdro View Post
    How are you going OP? Are you planning on sorting out housing or telling the kids? Do you have support from your family and friends? I notice the first thing you did was arranging things with Centrelink, which is a good first step, but also the most easily reversed if you change your mind about leaving your husband. So I'm just wondering, and I hope you won't mind me asking but....well....on a scale of 1-10, how likely do you think it is that you are really splitting up permanently? As a distant observer, it looks like you're leaving the door open to get back together (maybe not consciously?) No judgment from me, just wondering....
    No ...too much has been said and done ...he blames me for everything and can't see his own problems and mistakes. ..I am to blame for is gambling and drinking. ..and he can't see past any of that ...

  10. #357
    Join Date
    Aug 2011
    Location
    Brisbane, Qld
    Posts
    2,906
    Thanks
    971
    Thanked
    780
    Reviews
    4
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 postsAmber Star - 2,000 posts
    Please don't feel that it's your fault. He is responsible for his own actions.

  11. #358
    Join Date
    Mar 2014
    Posts
    1,257
    Thanks
    1,065
    Thanked
    813
    Reviews
    2
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 posts
    Wow RP, he's an adult and responsible for his own actions. He's trying to pass the buck to absolve himself of all guilt, and also to manipulate you a bit more. Don't listen to him.

  12. #359
    Join Date
    Oct 2011
    Posts
    385
    Thanks
    240
    Thanked
    264
    Reviews
    0
    How are you going RP? Did you tell the kids / look into housing arrangements etc.? Where to from here?

    Hope you're ok.

  13. The Following User Says Thank You to Cdro For This Useful Post:

    VicPark  (17-04-2016)

  14. #360
    Join Date
    Apr 2011
    Posts
    2,005
    Thanks
    291
    Thanked
    729
    Reviews
    6
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 postsAmber Star - 2,000 posts
    Just checking in, hope you're going ok x


 

Similar Threads

  1. Chest pains.... should i be concerned?
    By melimum in forum General Health
    Replies: 4
    Last Post: 21-10-2015, 21:01
  2. Chest freezers
    By maternidade in forum House & Gardens
    Replies: 8
    Last Post: 24-05-2015, 18:21
  3. Feeding/chest infection issues
    By monnie24 in forum Serious Health Issues
    Replies: 1
    Last Post: 19-05-2015, 20:26

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
free weekly newsletters | sign up now!
who are these people who write great posts? meet our hubbub authors!
Learn how you can contribute to the hubbub!

reviews
learn how you can become a reviewer!

competitions

forum - chatting now
christmas gift guidesee all Red Stocking
Mother and Baby Shop
Save $$$ during our Christmas Sale Mother and Baby Shop
Great prices on Schoenhut kids pianos, toys, baby clothing as well as big brands like Pigeon, NUK, Cherub Baby and many more. Sale starts on 1 November 2016 and ends on the 27 December 2016. Hurry! Place your order today!
sales & new stuffsee all
CarmelsBeautySecrets
Growing your own natural nails is easy. Years ago, I devised a simple and very effective technique which really helps boosts the nails' growth in as little as three days! And most importantly keeps them that way.
featured supporter
Philips AVENT Australia
Pregnancy and early parenthood is an exciting and challenging time, but it’s good to know there is expert advice on hand to ensure that your baby gets the best start in life.
gotcha
X

Pregnant for the first-time?

Not sure where to start? We can help!

Our Insider Programs for pregnancy first-timers will lead you step-by-step through the 14 Pregnancy Must Dos!