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    Quote Originally Posted by RuffledPansy View Post
    If I had any concrete evidence that he was or had cheated then it would be 100% over no questions. ..
    Im sorry to sound harsh but that is just another excuse you are now making.
    Perhaps turn things around and ask yourself if my daughter was in this situation would I tell her to stay for the kids or get her to leave so her kids didnt grow up thinking this was how a husband treats their wife?
    The only way you are every truely going to "get back at" or make your husband annoyed is by packing up your belongings when he is gone and leaving and having a happy life without him controlling you. He wont like seeing you happy and successful but its what you deserve and you can have this.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RuffledPansy View Post
    If I had any concrete evidence that he was or had cheated then it would be 100% over no questions. ..
    What I mean is that I would be second guessing myself at all ...it would be the shove I need ...

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    Quote Originally Posted by RuffledPansy View Post
    The other week he said that he wanted the kids for a week and I was worried and didn't want him to have them ....and to my joy nothing come of it .
    Well stupid me on Friday asked if he wanted to do something for easter .... (my reasoning ) was so that it was done in my terms ....he said nothing what do you want to do ....
    Then his next text was my Sister wants to come ova on Sunday and see the kids blah blah blah. ..
    Now I may be wrong but I asked HIM what HE was doing ...and straight away his sister gets thrown into the works ...I continued to text him but a said nothing about his sister ...
    So today he turns up and he talks about easter egg hunt etc etc ...and then he says we can do a hunt now and another later because when my sister comes she will have eggs also ...
    I came straight out and said I'm not happy about his sister being included in this and he has cracked the ****s again. ..I'm the ***** etc etc ...
    I said I was making plans with you and I wasn't asked if she could come ova ... (Well I wasn't )
    And things are very negative between us and the last t h ing that I need is to have her here knowing that those two have *****ed about me together and have her hear so early on in with all that has happened ...I'm not here to make her happy ...I can't win ....I regret the whole thing now ..
    Your husband probably wants his kids to see their aunt at Easter. Family is what Easter is about.

    I'm not sure what has happened in the past so apologies if there is something big I have missed. If your husband has been a super di@k and you still want him over, not sure why you are so anti the sister coming over?

    I agree with a pp who mentioned point scoring. You've got to put your own feelings aside, agendas with the hubby aside and make considered decisions that are focused on what is in the best interests of your children. It's not easy Hun I know. But it's necessary if they are to have a hope in hell of coming out of this relatively unscathed. You deserve to be a happy mum to happy kids.

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    sorry but why do the goal posts keep moving?

    I thought you were leaving him if he went on this trip?

    why are we now nit picking Easter plans?

    this thread is going round in circles.

    I don't think the OP has any intention to leave this guy tbh.

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    Yes I had made my mind up to leave him if he went on this trip. ..
    What I'm saying is that if their was proof that I had of a affair then I would be having these conversations with you all at all....it would be well and truly over ..

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    Quote Originally Posted by turquoisecoast View Post
    sorry but why do the goal posts keep moving?

    I thought you were leaving him if he went on this trip?

    why are we now nit picking Easter plans?

    this thread is going round in circles.

    I don't think the OP has any intention to leave this guy tbh.



    My thoughts exactly.

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    It's over he has left ...Gees you like to rub salt into the very fresh wounds ...thanks Ladies. ..

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    Quote Originally Posted by RuffledPansy View Post
    Yes I had made my mind up to leave him if he went on this trip. ..
    What I'm saying is that if their was proof that I had of a affair then I would be having these conversations with you all at all....it would be well and truly over ..


    Regardless of proof or not, everything you have told us on here about your relationship with your husband should be proof enough to yourself to do better for yourself and your kids. Don't you want to be happy? Provide a happy life for your kids? I've been divorced, had to start again with two little kids. It is really hard, but worth it. You can do the same. There are plenty of organisations you can go to. We all have to swallow our pride at times and ask for help. You can do it. It's not about rubbing salt in wounds, its about doing, not saying. Believe it or not, we want to see you move on and have a happier life. A lot of us can see the bigger picture because we have had to go through it ourselves. I was a new single mum with a 3yo and 18mth old, in 2008 with no previous rental references. I had to go to St Vinnies, Centrelink and all the rest. If I can start over, if any of these ladies can, you can.
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    Quote Originally Posted by RuffledPansy View Post
    It's over he has left ...Gees you like to rub salt into the very fresh wounds ...thanks Ladies. ..
    It hurts like a biatch. I know it does. But this is about protecting you and your children.

    We are not the ones trying to hurt you. He is. He has. We are trying to help.

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